Beware Woman’s Slander
الرِّجَالُ قَوَّامُونَ عَلَى النِّسَاء
“Men are the protector of women.” (Surat an-Nisa ‘: 34)
From Usama bin Zaid radhiallahu anhu that the Prophet sallallaahu alaihi wasallam that he said:
ما تركت بعدي فتنة أضر على الرجال من النساء
“I’m not left after me any fitnah more harmful to men than women.” (Narrated by al-Bukhari no. 5096 and Muslim no. 2740)
From Abu Said Al-Khudri radhiallahu anhu that the Prophet sallallaahu alaihi wasallam that he said:
إن الدنيا حلوة خضرة وإن الله مستخلفكم فيها فينظر كيف تعملون. فاتقوا الدنيا واتقوا النساء, فإن أول فتنة بني إسرائيل كانت في النساء
“Indeed, the world was sweeter green and verily Allah make you ruler over it and He will pay attention to what you do. Therefore you are afraid to (slander) of the world and your fear of (defamation) women, for verily the first fitnah (destroying) the Israelites are in trouble a woman. “(Narrated by Muslim, no. 2742)
Allaah says which means, “to cite this as a beautiful (view) the human love of what is desirable, namely: women, children, a treasure that many of these types of gold, silver, horse selection, cattle and paddy fields. That’s the pleasure of living in the world, and Allah is the place where a good return (Paradise). “(Surah Ali Imran: 14)
The above verse explains that the love of women is a nature and are natural. Therefore it is not forbidden a man loves and likes her for her passion was a passion that syar’i, embodied in the form of a syar’i, and love does not interfere with his worship of Allah Ta’ala.
Only when the reality of the love of women, since ancient till now, became one of the biggest reasons that endanger the faith of each man, then God and His Messenger warned of defamation on this one. The Prophet sallallaahu alaihi wasallam told that this woman is not only slander and harm befall this people, but really he had destroyed the earlier peoples who are stronger than those of the Children of Israel. And he sallallaahu alaihi wasallam also reported that of all the slander that endanger men like wealth, power, and women, the most devastating is the woman herself. Many people can keep themselves from defamation of property, there are many people who do not want the power, but very few people can resist a woman, therefore she is the greatest slander.
Therefore mandatory for every man who has women in their dependents, either his wife or son or sister or otherwise to maintain and supervise such dependents. Do not let them destroy themselves and destroy others. Because they can spread the slander everywhere and destroy society if not maintained properly. Alone with him is slander, bercambur frosted with them is slander, discharge him from his home without a purpose is to slander, to do everything they ask for is libel, slander out with the dress is, and much more. Therefore every man should fear Allah for the trust placed upon them.