Rights of Husband From Wife
Allah Ta’ala says:
يا أيها الناس اتقوا ربكم الذي خلقكم من نفس واحدة وخلق منها زوجها
“O mankind! Fear your Lord who created you from one soul, then He created its mate.” (Surat an-Nisa ‘: 1)
Allah Ta’ala says:
وللرجال عليهن درجة
“And for men who have a high position above them (women).” (Surat al-Baqarah: 228)
From Abu Hurayrah radhiallahu anhu he said: Never ask the Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wasallam, “Who is the best woman?” So he replied:
التي تسره إذا نظر وتطيعه إذا أمر ولا تخالفه في نفسها ومالها بما يكره
“The most fun if viewed her husband and obey him if he ordered it, and not menyelisihinya on themselves and their property with what is hated her husband.” (Narrated by An-Nasai no. 3231 and declared hasan by al-Albani in al-Misykah no. 3272)
From Abu Hurayrah radhiallahu anhu he said: The Messenger sallallaahu ‘alaihi wasallam said:
إذا دعا الرجل امرأته إلى فراشه فلم تأته فبات غضبان عليها لعنتها الملائكة حتى تصبح
“If a husband invites his wife to his bed, but she (the wife) would not meet the solicitation’s husband so that her husband slept that night in anger, the angels will curse her until dawn.” (Narrated by al-Bukhari no. 5193 and Muslim, no. 1436)
From Abu Hurayrah that the Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wasallam said:
لا يحل للمرأة أن تصوم وزوجها شاهد إلا بإذنه ولا تأذن في بيته إلا بإذنه وما أنفقت من نفقة عن غير أمره فإنه يؤدى إليه شطره
“It is not lawful for a woman to fast while while her husband was at home, kecuai with permission. And he must not allow anyone into his house except with permission of her husband. And something that he infakkan without her permission, then half should be returned to her husband. “(Narrated by al-Bukhari no. 5195 and Muslim no. 1026)
In the article: http://al-atsariyyah.com/ancaman-kepada-para-bencong-dan-waria.html, has been described on the primacy of men over women. And this implies that a husband has the right large must be submitted by his wife to him. That is because Allaah has made them leaders of their partners, so partners are created from him. Other reasons, because the husband who gives a living to his wife, he is guarding of evil and he meets all his needs. Therefore it is natural for Almighty God requires wives to devote to her husband over her devotion to her parents.
Among the rights which must be submitted by the husband and wife to him is:
a. Always maintain the appearance that her husband was pleased when to see it.
b. Not doing deeds-deeds hated by her husband even though the practice was probably the case that permissible.
c. Do not exploit her husband’s wealth on something that her husband hated.
d. Obey all the orders came from her husband even though the contents of the command is permissible, as long as the command is not in the form of disobedience.
e. More especially its longer, forbidden for wives to husbands refuse an invitation to ‘touch’.
f. It should not be fasting Sunnah absolutely without permission from her husband if her husband was home.
g. Not allow any one into her house without her husband’s permission.
h. If he used the treasure husband without his consent then he is obliged to replace the half.