Beautiful Muslimah, crowned Shame

“Muslim women beautiful, shy as a crown of glory made …” (SMS from a friend)

Reading SMS on top, maybe some people take for granted, just a sentence poetic couplet. But when we want to contemplate, there was such deep meaning. When we realize our nature is created as a woman, most beautiful creature in this world, then God mengkaruniakan guidance to us, then this is the most beautiful thing in her life. But unfortunately, many some of us-women-who do not realize how valuable he was. So a lot of women degrading themselves to renounce shame, while Allah has made the shame as the crown glory.

Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam said,

إن لكل دين خلقا, وإن خلق الإسلام الحياء

“Surely every religion has a morality and Islamic morality, it is a shame.” (Narrated by Ibn Majah no. 4181. Shaykh Al-Albani said that this hadith is hasan)

Word of the Apostle sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam others,

الحياء والإيمان قرنا جميعا, فإن رفع أحدهما رفع الآخر

“Shame and faith coexist together, if one of them in the lift so that another party will be lifted.” (Narrated by al-Hakim in Mustadroknya 1 / 73. Al-Hakim said that according to the terms Muslim Bukhari, as well as Adh Dzahabi)

So obviously Prophet Allaah gives an example to us, that shame is the identity of Islamic morality. Even shyness can not be separated from faith and vice versa. Especially for a Muslim, the shame is the crowning glory for himself. Shame on him is the thing that makes him honorable and glorified.

But unfortunately, in these days of shame in women has faded, so the nature of the creation of women-should-be jewelry world with keshalihahannya, became no longer meaningful. In this day and age women are only used as objects of lust pleasure. Things like this because the behavior of women themselves who often pride themselves on behalf of emancipation, they leave a shame to compete with men.

God has ordained nature of women and men with a highly significant difference. Not just physically, but also in mind and behavior. Even in the Quran surah Al Baqarah verse 228 which means: ‘And the women have the right balance with its obligations in a manner that is fitting,’ God has set for women’s rights as it should. Not merely the obligation imposed, but the right woman was God’s very concerned with adjusting her own nature. So when the women realize the nature, then he will understand that it’s any shame to be right for him. Every woman, especially a Muslim, entitled shame as the crown glory.

Unfortunately, few women are aware of this …

At precisely this time many women who choose to get the crown of ‘honor’ of the contest-a contest that exposes the beauty of women. Not just limited to facial beauty, but also the beauty of the body on sale for a crown of ‘honor’ is made of gold jewels. The women vying to audition for the daughters of beauty, from local to international level. Just for the sake of a crown of gold jewels and the title of ‘Miss Universe’ or the like, they are willing to expose themselves at once stripped of shame as the best of the crown on him. Naudzubillah min dzaliik …

Do they not realize, later in the day her parents when physical beauty is fading, or even when the body has been fused with the land, whether to be proud of that beauty? When it has been in the grave and meet with the angel who will ask about the charity during our worship in the world with a sense of shame for having stripped off the crown of glory during the world’s essential.

The Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam said,

صنفان من أهل النار لم أرهما قوم معهم سياط كأذناب البقر يضربون بها الناس ونساء كاسيات عاريات مميلات مائلات رءوسهن كأسنمة البخت المائلة لا يدخلن الجنة ولا يجدن ريحها وإن ريحها ليوجد من مسيرة كذا وكذا

“There are two classes of the population of hell that I’d never see: [1] A people who have a whip-like tail to hit the cow and human [2] the women who dressed but naked, waddle, their heads tilted like a camel’s hump. Women like that will not go to heaven and will not smell it, even though it smells wafted along the way so and so. “(Narrated by Muslim, no. 2128) Among the meanings of women who dressed but naked is a thin woman who wears clothes that appear inside the body . The woman is dressed, but actually naked. (See Al-Minhaj Sharh Sahih Muslim, 17/191)

In a story, ‘Aisha radhiyyallahu’ anha never visited the women of Bani Tamim, with thin clothing, then he said,

إن كنتن مؤمنات فليس هذا بلباس المؤمنات وإن كنتن غير مؤمنات فتمتعينه

“If you are believing women, then (know) that this is not the clothes women of faith, and if you’re not a woman of faith, then please enjoy the clothes.” (Mentioned in Ghoyatul Marom (198). Shaykh Al-Albani says, ” I have not been re-examining the sanadnya “)

Whatever God’s perfect when set hijab for women, it is a separate custody from God to us-women-to the crown that is in us. But how come when God himself has given protection to us, is precisely our own innocent of the guard so that the crown of our glory days were lost in the suit?

فبأي آلاء ربكما تكذبان

“Favors which of your Lord do you deny?” (Surat ar-Rahman: 13)

O, Muslim …

Nurture a sense of shame on us, as the best of our jewelry as a noble woman and glorified. Indeed, shame is more valuable if you compare it with a crown made of gold jewels, but to get (gold crown jewel), you have to expose yourself in front of the public.

O Muslim sister …

Go back to the way your Lord with all his glory, with shame because of your faith in your Lord …



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Posted on July 16, 2011, in Fiqh Monotheisme Morals and tagged , . Bookmark the permalink. Leave a comment.

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