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Debate is Bad

debate is bad?From Abu Umaamah radhiallahu anhu he said: The Messenger sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa Salam said:
ما ضل قوم بعد هدى كانوا عليه إلا أوتوا الجدل ثم تلا رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم هذه الآية: ما ضربوه لك إلا جدلا بل هم قوم خصمون
“It is not a people astray after they had been above instructions except that they are a people who love to debate.” Then he read this verse, “They do not give it to you but the parable with the intention of debating it, in fact they were a quarrelsome. “(Surah Az-Zukhruf: 58) (Narrated by At-Tirmidhi no. 3253, Ibn Majah no. 47, and declared hasan by al-Albani in Saheeh al-Jami ‘no. 5633)
From Aisha radhiallahu ‘anha of the Prophet sallallaahu’ alaihi wasallam, he said:
إن أبغض الرجال إلى الله الألد الخصم
“Surely the most wrath of God is the most harsh and challenging hostility if proof be explained to him” Read the rest of this entry

Law of “Oral Sex”

sexWhat is the law of oral sex?

Answer:

Mufti of Saudi Arabia, South Ash-Shaykh al-`Allamah Ahmad ibn Yahya An-Najmi hafizhohullah replied as follows,

“As for sucking wife against her husband’s genitals (oral sex), then this is haram, is not allowed. Because he (pubic husband) can be dispersed. If you disperse the water will come out of it that he madzy unclean according to the agreement (scholars’). If (water madzy it) into the mouth and into his stomach then probably will cause disease to her.

And Shaykh Ibn Baz has berfatwa about illegitimate rahimahullah it-as I hear directly from him-. ” Read the rest of this entry

Law of “Anal Sex”

sexWhat is the legal wife went to the anus (back) or come to him in a state of menstruation or childbirth?

Answer:

It should not be intercourse with his wife in the anus or in a state of menstruation and childbirth. Even so it includes the major sins according to the word of Allah (meaning):

“They ask you about menstruation. Say “menstruation is dirt.” So shun yourself from a woman when menstruation. And do you approach them before they are holy. If they are holy, then Go to the place which they enjoined. Truly Allah loves those who repent and to love those who purify themselves. Wives you are (like) fields (where farming) for you. So you bagaimanasaja Go to the fields you want. “(Al-Baqarah 222-223) Read the rest of this entry

Repentance Nasuha

taubat nasuhaMan is not free from mistakes, big or small, consciously or accidentally. Moreover, if the passions dominate his soul. He will be the butt doing disobedience. Obedience, as no meaningful value.

Although dogged by human disobedience and sin accumulate, does not mean there was no door to improve. Since, however mounting immoral deeds of a servant, but the door of mercy is always open. Humans are given the opportunity to improve themselves. That is, with repent of their deeds that can be delivered into the abyss of hell. Repentance must be conducted in total, which is known as repentance nashuha. Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam said:

كل بني آدم خطاء و خير الخطائين التوبون. رواه الترمذي Read the rest of this entry

Dangers Of Materialistic Views, For Life Muslim Household

MATERILISTIS VIEWS OF THE WORLD
Materialistic outlook today, hitting a lot of human life. Even some Muslims are also affected by the neglect of this life. Namely forward outlook on life that only a limited effort to get momentary pleasure in this mortal world, so that activities are executed only lives revolve around the problem of how to create jobs, develop the economy, build houses and buildings, fulfilling life satisfaction and things other worldly, without thinking of consequences and attitudes that should be done. Seemed to assume, that happiness can only be achieved with the treasure. As a result, this materialistic view of disturbing the harmony and tranquility of a Muslim household. Neglecting the core purpose of its creation, servitude to Allah alone in every aspect of life. Allah says:

وماخلقت الجن والإنس إلاليعبدون مآأريد منهم من رزق ومآأريد أن يطعمون إن الله هو الرزاق ذو القوة المتين
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Trick Towards Sakinah Family

Islam has given a complete and detailed instructions on the issue of marriage. Starting from the suggestion to get married, how to choose an ideal mate, do khitbah (proposal), how to educate children, as well as provide a way out if there was chaos in the household, until the process nafaqah (provide for) and the estate, all governed by Islam in detail , detailed and explicit.

Furthermore, to understand the concept of marriage in Islam, then reference the most correct and legitimate is the Qur’an and As Sunnah Ash Saheehah in accordance with the understanding Salafush Salih. Based on this reference, we will gain clarity about aspects of marriage, as well as a number of irregularities and shifts occurring in the value of marriage in our society. Read the rest of this entry

Fostering Harmonious Household

Households who are happy and harmonious is the dream of every believer. Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam has set an example to us, about how to foster domestic harmony. Indeed in the Messenger’s self-contained example of the best. And a husband must realize that there is a hero in his home on behind the scenes, the carrier of calmness and coolness, namely his wife. Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam.

الدنيا كلها متاع, وخير متاع الدنيا الزوجة الصالحة

The world is full of pleasure. And best of pleasures of the world namely the shalihah wife.

Clever-pandailah Caring Wife Read the rest of this entry

How To Beat The Urge Of Lust and Sin

The new man can be spared from the disease of sin and crimes when he believes that sin and crime is more dangerous and more memudhoratkan than a thief, snake or other wild animals and so on. And when the might, majesty and authority of God every moment into consideration.

In our daily life, evident that man can leave the wants, wishes, and desires of his heart. For example a person sick with diabetes, doctors actually forbade him from eating foods that are sweet. So the man, for her life, touching sweet foods even he did not want to. So so is the spiritual desires and impulses of lust. If greatness and might of the Almighty has implanted in his heart to the right, then the attitude of not obeying God’s will she feel worse than eating fire, and worse than death. Read the rest of this entry

What Is Islam?

Why is this question important? Because our perception of Islam will dictate how we practice Islam. There are berbendapat Islam is built upon five cases, based on the hadith below:

“Islam is founded on five cases that bear witness that there is no god but Allah and Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah, establish regular Prayer, issued alms, pilgrimage to the House, and fasting in the month of Ramadan”. (Narrated by Bukhari and Muslim)

People who understand Islam are the five cases, he will practice in accordance with his understanding. He will only do the creed, prayer, Zakat, Hajj and fasting Ramadan. He’ll feel pretty when it was the practice of these five cases, and did not see the rest anymore. Many Muslims today are trapped in the understanding of Islam like this. There is even a famous spiritual training with tickets millions of dollars that makes the idea of ​​Islam as the main principles of the five cases they were. Read the rest of this entry

Rich Without Faith

rich1 gram of gold at what price? If the earth was weighed how many grams of weight! If there is gold all the earth sale price roughly how much? Well … certainly very expensive, could be for fun seven generations it …!

Imam Bukhari and Imam Muslim narrated from Anas bin Malik radhiyallahu’anhu, the Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam said, “Later in the day of Judgement disbelievers will be brought to him and asked,’ What do you think if you have all your gold content of the earth if you want to redeem ( torture) him? ‘. He replied, ‘Yes of course. “Then said to him,’ Truly first-world-you are asked something easier than that [and yet you are reluctant and still do shirk ].’.” (Narrated by Bukhari [6538] and Muslim [2805]) Read the rest of this entry